Dolls symbolize perfection, glamour, fantasy and fulfillment. Barbie is
always smiling, living her life in Malibu with her boyfriend Ken. She is also
able to fulfill her dreams in any profession that she wants... But what if dolls were
imperfect?
In a photograph taken by Vivian
Maier, a doll is shown in a trash can. The doll’s clothes are ripped and dirty.
Its’ face has scratches and dirt on it. The doll is enclosed in the trash can. The
doll is clearly imperfect. Who wants to love an imperfect doll? This question
leads to the reason why we perform on social media the way we do. We fear not
being loved. We fear being unwanted. We fear being alone. We fear being
imperfect but we are indeed imperfect. It’s a hard reality to face because much
like the imperfect doll enclosed by the trash can we are trapped by are
imperfections. When I look at this photo I see us inside the trash can and
everything outside of it as a society pushing us to be something we are not. We
are the beautifully imperfect dolls trapped in a society that tells us how we should
look, how we should act, and how we should think. Consequently, this enables incidents
such as “catfishing” to happen. If Angela would have been completely honest
from the beginning, would Nev had loved her for who she is? No. Nev was clearly
looking for a woman that exemplified society’s standards of beauty. After all
Megan is skinny, blonde, has light eyes, and is a professional model. Nev fell
in love with Angela’s personality but Megan’s physical appearance. Because
Angela knew this fact, she kept up her façade.
"Who wants to love an imperfect doll?"
ReplyDeleteI am afraid the answer to this rhetorical question is "no one". But I am even more scared to think that we might apply the same reasoning to: "who wants to love an imperfect being?"